Ben You'll Be Missed!

Today I lost my mentor the man that has been coaching me throughout my career in fashion. He helped me in ways that changed my life. I styled alot of editorial projects because he helped me bring out my imagination. He knew he was going to go soon. He was 42 years of age, respected in the fashion world, a proud homosexual man, and he always stood up for what he believed. Aids was the cause of his death and he waited till the doctor gave him a month to live to tell everyone that he has had Aids for 4 years.

As I would go to visit him at the hospital he would feed me wisdom and positivity. He was AMAZING and will always be in my heart. He told me 2 weeks ago "If you dont have this Fashion Week show in september I'll turn into a bad angel and hunt your ass down, god would be mad at me for a few hours but he'd get over it after we have a few cocktails". I'm gonna miss him ALOT. And I just heard a song by Michael Jackson called "Ben". I keep listening to it over & over!

I dont know if I can take all these loses. Sheeeesh!

The New New Cut!

What You've Got?

Well, after all these stressful feelings, I've learned something. That we must be kind to ourself. You know, our body needs for more support. So, say yes to sunlight, fresh air, and enjoyable movement. Acknowledge your efforts and successes. Speak kindly to yourself. Watch movies that inspire or make me laugh, I love it. Have more fun!

Joy is not going to magically appear. Joy comes from inside of you. Joy is now, not later.

Anyway, don't you think the more you have experienced troubles, the more you experience happiness in life? Thats what I've got!

Dr. Keo On Deck. . . 10 Bad Sex Habits (Women) Make

Shyness in Bed

Men are often as conservative as some women and don’t want to experiment. Talk to your booboo about sex and try to formulate your desires clearly. Fantasies and talks about it would help to discover your sexuality.

Refusal of Quick Sex

It is known that the importance of foreplay is sometimes overestimated. Try to take the initiative and turn to more vigorous actions. Undoubtedly, your lover would appreciate your control over the situation, because sometimes there is nothing more exciting than quick sex.

The Same Sex Positions

Most couples have just a pair of permanent sexual positions. This script seems to be too out of date. This is exactly the habit which makes sex monotonous and even boring. Don’t fear to put a a lil umph on all usual sex positions and add a little OWWWW to your sex life.

Sex under Studied Scenario

Forget about time-management and stop planning the time of having sex. If you both want to do just do it like nike. Lol.

Sex in Darkness

Lots of women prefer to make love in darkness. There can be many reasons of it, but the first one is dissatisfaction with own appearance. Before turning off the light, think for a while why is he going to have sex with You? Because the way you look turns him on and there’s no need to hide yourself. Men are said to love with eyes, this is why nothing can turn your lover on as much as your naked body. So, let him see you while you are having sex. This will please you both much more.

Fake Orgasms

DONT abuse acting in bed.

Only He Initiates Sex

Forget about sex only on (his) initiative. If you want it take it.

Serious Relationships

Laugh even in bed. Don’t be too serious: having fun together not only makes you closer, but also helps avoid awkward situations.

Silence during Sex

Compliments and talks about feelings are suitable nowhere but in bed. They increase mutual interest. So, don’t be silent, it would be useful and pleasant for you both.

Loving Yourself

It’s better to think of cellulite and other body defects before a hearty meal. In bed you should forget about all your defects. At this moment you’re the Most Wanted Woman.

Breakfast At Tiffany's

“You can always tell what kind of person a man really thinks you r by the earrings he gives you”.

AUDREY HEPBURN WAS A BAD BiiiSH

Feelings. . .

Idk if

I want to. . .

Bust out laughing

Or

Bust into tears

well

I want to. . .

Any advice?. . . Lol.

I Swear They Said It. . .

The Roof said, AIM HIGH

The Fan said, BE COOL

The Window said, SEE THE WORLD

The Calendar said, BE UP TO DATE

The Clock said, EVERY MINUTE IS PRECIOUS

The Mirror said, REFLECT BEFORE YOU ACT

The Door said, PUSH HARD TO CAPTURE YOUR DREAM

F*cking Your Way To The Top?

Yesterday I got a call from a friend and I heard some crazy news. She said alot of her female friends are having sex with alot females and some males to further their career in the fashion industry. She said their getting further in their careers and she has considered doing it with her boss (a female) who is editor-in chief at a major magazine.

The fashion industry is a world of female dominance, but that doesnt mean u have to f*ck your boss to get a promotion. I guess this happens in other industries as well Its sad that sex has become a option to get ahead. Sleeping with the boss not only destroys your self respect, but it diminishes you as the intelligent, capable professional you are. You will gain more respect from your confidence and your knowledge, experience, and ability to do the job. Not only that, you put yourself at risk for losing your job.

Have MORALS You should be using your experience and ability to get ahead, not sex. It comes down to the morality that you have.

I would never sell myself. Sex for monetary gain is prostitution. I have integrity and believe in myself. If you don't respect yourself, others won't respect you.

NEVER SHIT WHERE YOU EAT

Snip Snip. . .

I GOT MY HAIR CUT YESTERDAY

Is Originality Dead?

(R)U.S. Vogue, November 15, 1964 (L)Anna Mariya Urazhevskaya, backstage at

Dolce & Gabbana, Spring 2007

(R)Vogue magazine, August 1, 1962 (L) Coco Rocha for Nicole Farhi, Fall 2008

(R)Cinderella herself from 1950 (L)Michelle Buswell at Christian Dior

(R)Diane Von Furstenberg dress knocked off by (L)Forever 21

(R)Beyonce (L)Ciara

The Forever 21 shirts(Top) Trovata's are on the(Bottom)

R)Brigitte Bardot, in a publicity still from the mid-1960s (L)Dolce & Gabbana Fall Ad

(R)Christian Dior L)Steve Madden

DO YOU THINK ORIGINALITY IS DEAD?

Shut Up. . .

Remember

Always keep your words soft, simple, and sweet, just in case you have to EAT them.

Assumptions. . .

Never assume because you’ll only make a huge FUCKERY outta yourself.

Are you wearing fake Christian Louboutin's?

The red-soled shoes on Louboutinmall.com & Highheelhome.com are NOT real Christian Louboutins. The site Louboutinmall.com is saying "Our shoes are superior replicas, but they are with a top quality, near to the real shoes, with original packages, dust bag and original boxes, and they are brand new, never used". And people read that and continue to by them WTF.

It is fundamentally unfair for others to profit off the creative works of the designer. I refuse to give my money to criminals who are stealing the creative works of designers. I personally try to look great with lower priced items that are not counterfeits or blatant rip-offs of designer goods. If $800 seems like a ridiculous amount to spend on shoes then don't. Just don't support the criminals who are ripping off designers.

Fly me to the moon. . .

Damn, I think the moon is my new drug of choice. Lol. So Im spotting a sweet crescent moon in the night sky. It's inviting and warm, and placed in the perfect direction in the sky, as if it were a smile, looking down at me, watching me, watching all of us. This is cheering me up after a lousy day. Really breathtaking.

"I like to think that the moon is there even if I am not looking at it"

- Albert Einstein